When do you consider postponing your wedding? | COVID - 19 Weddings

Deciding Whether to Cancel or Postpone Your Wedding

As COVID-19 continues to affect people around the world, many engaged couples have had to decide whether to cancel or postpone their weddings.

Having to make this decision is not something you were planning to do, nor is it the most pleasant experience. The good news is that regardless of what you decide, you will still marry the love of your life.

Before we go into whether you should postpone or cancel your wedding, know that it’s perfectly okay to feel emotional about having to put your plans on hold. Whether you’re feeling sad or angry, let yourself experience the disappointment – just don’t make any irrational or emotional decisions at this time. Lean on your partner and those you love for the support you need.

To Cancel or Not to Cancel

So, what should you do about your impending nuptials?
It’s highly recommended that you rather postpone your wedding instead of canceling it.

If you have to cancel your wedding instead of postponing it, you may end up suffering a major financial loss. Many vendors will be unable to give your deposit back. If you had to postpone your wedding, however, the financial ramifications will be far less severe.

Many couples are also put off by the fact that so many adjustments will need to be made. It’s important to remember that your venue and vendors are here to assist you, which means you won’t need to figure this all out on your own.

Plus, your friends and family are here to help you make the necessary changes too. Whether it’s coordinating guests or helping you choose new flowers that will be in season at the time of the revised date, help is available.

You can still look forward to your big day despite the uncertainty that we’re all currently facing. Just take it one step at a time and know that you’re not alone.

Father's Day Gift Guide

If you have been following HOH for any length of time you have met my family but if you are new, let me introduce you to my dad! He’s pretty amazing! He is a retired Colonel in the USAF. I’m so proud of not only his character but also his actions. If you have a fabulous dad like I do, you will want to make sure you get him the VERY best gift for Father’s Day. Listen up, I’ve had a lot of free time so I’m going to give you 3 options which just may save you a whole lot of time and energy hunting around.

The first suggestion for the very best Father’s Day gift that I have is updated family portraits. You know I’m a photographer and think portraits are so so important. But also, when was the last time you had pictures taken as a family? Likely your wedding. Hire a local photographer and schedule some family portraits. This will be the most expensive option of those I will give you but it is a gift that keeps giving back. Head over to www.agapebyamanda.com to find out about the super fun Sunflower Mini Sessions for the end of June/beginning of July which would be a perfect gift option.

My second gift idea is a custom recipe book. My dad has always loved to cook, but even more so now that he is retired. He has so many family recipes written on index cards that are deteriorating more and more by the day. I typed up every recipe, found a super great template on Etsy and created a family recipe book. This option is by far the most time consuming! However, a lot of us have a lot more free time right now so this may be something to consider.

My 3rd gift idea is for all of you who love personalized gifts. Joe from Groovy Guy Gifts created a great list of the top 100 personalized gifts for 2020. Living in the South, I love everything monogrammed. I’ve received several of the gifts on their list in the past and love them all! The personalized cuff links, money clips and leather products are all great options. I really love the monogrammed bags. If you want a reaction like the one from my dad above, be sure to check out the most cost effective item on my gift guide!

I hope this helps you get creative with your Father’s Day gift ideas!

Katie & Luke | Uptown Engagement Session

In case you are reading this later, today is day 938490280 of the Stay at Home order due to COVID-19 or more affectionately known as the Corona virus. I want to throw back to this lovely engagement session during happier Fall times when we were allowed to celebrate our love outdoors, among the masses!

Katie & Luke live uptown so it was natural that they wanted an engagement session that spoke to who they were as a couple. They work at the banks so having BOA behind them for their Save the Date photo was a no brainer.

Can we just stop for a second to recognize how amazingly they killed the dip, FIRST TRY?! Naturals. Why can’t I be more graceful like these two??

You don’t need three outfits or two fancy locations for engagement pictures, all you need is one love that shines through it all. Celebrate your love tonight but shaking things up. You can still date from home. Plan a takeout & movie night followed up a massage tonight. Your fiance will LOVE IT and will more than appreciate your effort.

I know we are still stuck, I mean safe, inside for a few more weeks. Take this time to focus on the things you still need to finish for planning your wedding! Undivided time that you woudln’t otherwise have is surely a blessing.

Anna & Zach Say I Do | Corona Virus Elopement | Anne Close Springs Greenway

This week started as a nightmare for Zach & Anna as they had to make the call on their wedding that they’ve been planning for well over a year. No one could have predicted this just a few short weeks ago. Our country has been thrown into a tailspin and bride’s everywhere are being put in such a terrible position. Do they keep their wedding, limit guest count and potentially infect many people of COVID-19? Or, do they postpone/cancel their wedding, potentially losing thousands of dollars on vendors and pushing back their wedding dreams? I don’t envy any couples with weddings in Spring or Summer 2020. To be honest, I also feel awful for any newly engaged couples because many of rescheduled weddings are taking dates they would otherwise have available. Further, vendors are slow to respond as this pandemic is still so new and fluid.

Anna & Zach made the call to postpone their wedding on Monday and also happened to get into a car accident in the same day! After the hump of anxiety and sadness, they came to the realization that they still needed to be legally married on their original wedding date of March 21, 2020. Their wedding planner, Candace with Erin Padgett Events, came to the rescue and suggested to use their original venue of Anne Close Springs Greenway to have an elopement ceremony. The floral arrangements from Weddings With Barbara were already in and gorgeous. Candace went above and beyond to stylize the fireplace for the wedding ceremony.

Anna & Zach have an adorable dog named Pepper who joined them at their engagement session. Since it would be just the two of them at their ceremony, they decided it would be the perfect time to incorporate Pepper into their big day.

For all of the other couples out their with weddings affected by the Corona Virus, there is an answer. You can still have it all! All you need is the bride and groom, beautiful florals, some cake to celebrate a little bubbly to wash it all down. Together, Candace with EPE and Amanda with HOH are here to make your wedding dreams a reality. If you are considering eloping during this uncertain time, reach out to us!

If you are a rule follower and know how important it is to stay in small groups while maintaining social distancing right now, we have an answer! Zach & Anna used Zoom to have their families be a part of their special moment. They didn’t miss a thing!

It isn’t official without a little cake and a little champs. Don’t worry, we had both!

We are all feeling a little shut in and stir crazy right now so enjoying the outdoors and taking advantage of the beautiful weather yesterday was such a win. Anne Close Springs Greenway is beginning to blooms with beautiful shades of purples and pinks.

Best part, it’s pet friendly!

Okay, for real though, the best part is the peach blossoms. They will be in full bloom in another week or two.

Besides the bride and groom, honest vows, beautiful flowers, an awesome officiant, fun photos, tasty cake and some bubbly, what else makes for the perfect wedding elopement? A first dance of course! Thank you so much Anna & Zach for having Head Over Heels Wedding Photography there for this special moment. We can’t wait to see you in August for your big ceremony at the Dairy Barn!

Wedding Planner - Candace with Erin Padgett Events

Flowers - Weddings With Barbara

Photographer - Head Over Heels Wedding Photography

Officiant - Ian Wheeler

All In the Details | Inn at Tranquility Farm Wedding

We all know that the devil is in the details but did you know that groom’s details are just as important as the bride’s? Well, they are!

Not only are the personal details important but you chose the venue for a reason so make sure we have time to photograph that in detail for you too!

Not sure what details to pack for the groom? Gifting a custom money clip, tie bar and cufflinks all in a monogrammed box is the perfect way to show off the groom and make sure he stays fashionable! Bring his favorite cologne and bowtie/tie too!

Let’s not forget to shine up the rings! Plus, it wouldn’t be an HOH wedding without an epic sunset right?

Big thanks to Groovy Groomsmen Gifts for the awesome men’s details.